swarm/network:   hive bug: needed shallow peers are not sent to nodes beyond connection's proximity order (#19326)

* swarm/network: fix hive bug not sending shallow peers

-  hive bug: needed shallow peers were not sent to nodes beyond connection's proximity order
- add extensive protocol exchange tests for initial subPeersMsg-peersMsg exchange
- modify bzzProtocolTester to allow pregenerated overlay addresses

* swarm/network: attempt to fix hive persistance test

* swarm/network: fix TestHiveStatePersistance (#1320)

* swarm/network: remove trace lines from the hive persistance test

* address PR review comments

* swarm/network: address PR comments on TestInitialPeersMsg

 * eliminate *testing.T argument from bzz/hive protocoltesters
 * add sorting (only runs in test code) on peersMsg payload
 * add random (0 to MaxPeersPerPO) peers for each po
 * add extra peers closer to pivot than control